Hello Moms and Dads out there. In today's "short attention span theater" approach to communications - ever feel like you kids are paying ZERO heed to what you're saying? I have some proof that, in fact, they occasionally are...
Recently took both kids to the grocery store. The latest push for freedom: my seven-year old wants to head off and gather an item on his own and bring it back to me. Okay - I'll play. So I'll select an item that's in the vicinity of where I am - or where I'm heading - and he'll fetch. After successfully completing a few items, he was ready for more. So I said, "Okay - let's see how you do with this one... I want you and your sister (age 3) to go and select your cereal for the week. I want you to agree on your decision and make a good choice. Hold hands. Stay together." And sent them over to the next aisle (where I could see/hear them).
After about 5 minutes, they returned. Seven-year old reported back as official spokesperson:
"Mom. We really want this new Cupcake Pebbles cereal - however, we read the label and noticed that the sugar was much higher than you would want. But we REALLY wanted it. So here it is. BUT, we then searched for the cereal with the lowest sugar content we could find (handed over the Corn Flakes). We thought that if you mixed the two together for us that would be a good compromise. Can we have both?"
I couldn't argue with this. And also couldn't help laughing a bit under my breath at the pitch as his little sister stood there nodding vigorously her approval.
Though outwardly silent - my voice inside was screaming... "HOLY CATS! They are actually listening and paying attention. Sometimes."
Score one for Mom.